Monday, November 28, 2011
Kid response
"Yeah!!!!!Finally an early Christmas present!" This was my nephew Ethan's response when his mom told him that I finally got my travel dates. Kids get it right so often! The pure joy of a long waited for new cousin, niece and daughter.
Friday, November 25, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving
Ok, I know it is actually Friday and I'm a day late. I was spending yesterday with my family, just enjoying time together and talking about what next year will be like when my girl is finally home and able to have her first Thanksgiving. I hope that all of you in the US had a wonderful day with your families and that those who don't celebrate Thanksgiving had wonderful days too.
Well, I know I have been pretty quiet lately. I must say that the last few weeks have been an emotional roller coaster. On 10/31 I got my biometrics done early (this was fantastic since I wasn't suppose to get them done till 11/21). On 11/7 my USCIS approval came in the mail and the next day I took my documents up to the State building and got everything notarized and apostilized. Then off to FedEx to send things on their way. So, all last week I was waiting to get the news that everything was a go.....it didn't happen. Instead on Thursday I got an email titled "URGENT". Now, this is NEVER a good sign. Well, I found out that the agency in Bulgaria needed another document, notarized and apostilized. How did I miss this document, you ask...well, my coordinator had actually asked the agency in country if they needed this document notarized and apositlized over the summer and was told no. So, I figured that since they didn't need it then, I didn't need to do it now. BIG mistake! Last Friday after what seemed like the longest staff meeting at work, I took off for the State building again (this is about 2 hours away one way). I got everything done and FedEx off to Bulgaria. As soon as I got into my car, I hit an emotional wall, all the frustration that I had been feeling over the last few months just came out. Thankfully no one was there to witness this. I took the rest of the day and weekend to de-stress and rest. All the stress made my head cold come back in full force so, I was very grateful that this was a short week at work and most likely nothing big would happen. Tuesday night, as I was getting dinner ready, I got a call from my coordinator. I wasn't sure what to think at this point....well, at long last I have travel dates. It took a while for it to finally sink in, but it looks like I will get to go and meet my girl before Christmas. I'm very excited about finally getting to meet my girl! I have been looking at airfare over the past few days, so has my friend (Dora Beth) who is planning on traveling with me.
When I started on this journey I had planned on taking my dad with me on the first trip. Over the past 6 months that has changed. My dad started having some digestive health issues this past spring. He hasn't been able to get it stabilized enough to travel far from home at this time. Well, due to that I needed to find someone to go with me. On one of my trips to Des Moines for paperwork, I was talking on my phone (yes, I know I shouldn't do this and that it's dangerous). I had called to talk with my friend Dora Beth and was explaining this situation to her. Being the amazing friend that she is, she responded "I think I can make that work". I didn't even have to ask her to go, she was willing to go with me and deal with all the emotions I will be going through meeting my daughter for the first time. The best part is that she understands it, because she too is a mother to a child adopted internationally. So, the two of us, who have known each other for 22 year, lived together for 1 year in college and have remained friends through good and bad times, are planning on traveling together in the near future on my journey to motherhood. Trust me she is an amazing friend to have, when I was feeling really down last weekend she sent me a surprise on Sunday to lift my spirits.
I will keep you all updated on what is going on.
Well, I know I have been pretty quiet lately. I must say that the last few weeks have been an emotional roller coaster. On 10/31 I got my biometrics done early (this was fantastic since I wasn't suppose to get them done till 11/21). On 11/7 my USCIS approval came in the mail and the next day I took my documents up to the State building and got everything notarized and apostilized. Then off to FedEx to send things on their way. So, all last week I was waiting to get the news that everything was a go.....it didn't happen. Instead on Thursday I got an email titled "URGENT". Now, this is NEVER a good sign. Well, I found out that the agency in Bulgaria needed another document, notarized and apostilized. How did I miss this document, you ask...well, my coordinator had actually asked the agency in country if they needed this document notarized and apositlized over the summer and was told no. So, I figured that since they didn't need it then, I didn't need to do it now. BIG mistake! Last Friday after what seemed like the longest staff meeting at work, I took off for the State building again (this is about 2 hours away one way). I got everything done and FedEx off to Bulgaria. As soon as I got into my car, I hit an emotional wall, all the frustration that I had been feeling over the last few months just came out. Thankfully no one was there to witness this. I took the rest of the day and weekend to de-stress and rest. All the stress made my head cold come back in full force so, I was very grateful that this was a short week at work and most likely nothing big would happen. Tuesday night, as I was getting dinner ready, I got a call from my coordinator. I wasn't sure what to think at this point....well, at long last I have travel dates. It took a while for it to finally sink in, but it looks like I will get to go and meet my girl before Christmas. I'm very excited about finally getting to meet my girl! I have been looking at airfare over the past few days, so has my friend (Dora Beth) who is planning on traveling with me.
When I started on this journey I had planned on taking my dad with me on the first trip. Over the past 6 months that has changed. My dad started having some digestive health issues this past spring. He hasn't been able to get it stabilized enough to travel far from home at this time. Well, due to that I needed to find someone to go with me. On one of my trips to Des Moines for paperwork, I was talking on my phone (yes, I know I shouldn't do this and that it's dangerous). I had called to talk with my friend Dora Beth and was explaining this situation to her. Being the amazing friend that she is, she responded "I think I can make that work". I didn't even have to ask her to go, she was willing to go with me and deal with all the emotions I will be going through meeting my daughter for the first time. The best part is that she understands it, because she too is a mother to a child adopted internationally. So, the two of us, who have known each other for 22 year, lived together for 1 year in college and have remained friends through good and bad times, are planning on traveling together in the near future on my journey to motherhood. Trust me she is an amazing friend to have, when I was feeling really down last weekend she sent me a surprise on Sunday to lift my spirits.
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| Flowers from my friend |
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Adoption Awareness Month
November is National Adoption Awareness Month! A fellow adoptive mom, Valerie, is posting about it daily on her blog. Go check it out http://fromthetrenchesofadoption.blogspot.com/ I am donating a super cut pair of mittens to Valerie's give away. Here is a pic of my contribution.
Yes, for those of you Twilight fans who are thinking these look familiar. They are inspired by the mittens that Bela wears in the first movie. If you want to win these....check out Valerie's blog and find out how.
As for my adoption process.....well, I finally got my biometric appointment date for 11/21. I wasn't very happy about it being so far off. So, I decided to go up the afternoon of Halloween to beg them to do the biometrics early. And they did! I also had to call my USCIS officer in charge of my case to let her know that I had them done early and needed my approval as soon as possible. She asked me to call her back on Thursday, when I was told that my file was in the "to be approved today" stack. So, I am expecting to have my updated approval in my hands sometime next week. I know I will have to take some more time off to get all the docs apostilized asap! I am praying that I will have all my updated docs on the way to Bulgaria by the end of next week.
As for my adoption process.....well, I finally got my biometric appointment date for 11/21. I wasn't very happy about it being so far off. So, I decided to go up the afternoon of Halloween to beg them to do the biometrics early. And they did! I also had to call my USCIS officer in charge of my case to let her know that I had them done early and needed my approval as soon as possible. She asked me to call her back on Thursday, when I was told that my file was in the "to be approved today" stack. So, I am expecting to have my updated approval in my hands sometime next week. I know I will have to take some more time off to get all the docs apostilized asap! I am praying that I will have all my updated docs on the way to Bulgaria by the end of next week.
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